Melanie Bilenker

 
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The jewelry of my adolescent and teen years involved beads, charms, crystals and tokens. Most treasured were those swapped with friends: half a heart charm, a knotted friendship bracelet, beads on a safety pin worn on my shoelace.

Another adolescent thread was the freedom of self-control provided by hair clippers. Physical change brought solace in the years when I felt most out of control. At times I would bleach my short hair from dark brown to rusty orange-blonde and then b…

Another adolescent thread was the freedom of self-control provided by hair clippers. Physical change brought solace in the years when I felt most out of control. At times I would bleach my short hair from dark brown to rusty orange-blonde and then buzz it off again. As a saver of things, I kept some half-bleached teenage locks. 

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For Homeroom, in the manner of tokens traded by Victorian era friends and lovers, I plaited my teen hair, set it beneath a heart-shaped glass and dangled it from a gold pin. 

Brunette to Blonde Friendship Pin2021Artist’s half-bleached teenage hair on paper, gold, silver, mineral glass

Brunette to Blonde Friendship Pin

2021

Artist’s half-bleached teenage hair on paper, gold, silver, mineral glass

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Take this heart with a lock of my hair to remember me, you can pin it to your laces.